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STUDY 26: YOUR TONGUE
You will learn in the
following Scriptures that the tongue, though a very small member of the body,
has enormous power for good or evil and must be continually controlled.
1. Circle keywords or phrases
in the following Scriptures.
All kinds of animals, birds,
reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man,
but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly
poison. James 3:7, 8 (NIV)
Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up. Proverbs
12:18, 25 (NIV)
He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity. Proverbs
21:23 (NIV)
For, "Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil
and his lips from deceitful speech. 1 Peter 3:10 (NIV)
He who guards his lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to
ruin. Proverbs 13:3 (NIV)
Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you
may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:6 (NIV)
I said, "I will watch my ways and keep my tongue from sin; I will put a muzzle
on my mouth as long as the wicked are in my presence." Psalm 39:1
If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his
tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless. James 1:26
Your tongue plots destruction; it is like a sharpened razor, you who practice
deceit. Psalm 52:2 (NIV)
2. What do we learn about our
tongues in:
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James 3:7, 8
Proverbs 12:18, 25
Proverbs 21:23
1 Peter 3:10
Proverbs 13:3
Colossians 4:6
Psalm 39:1
James 1:26
Psalm 52:2
3. How can I apply the truth
of these verses to my life today?
Think Before Speaking
The heart of the righteous
weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil. — Proverbs 15:28
At the end of the week, who will have made more progress toward becoming a
truth-telling person—the one who carefully monitors his/her words or the gusher
who lets
whatever forms in his/her mind spew forth from their mouth? The Bible would vote
for the person who slows down, considers carefully and holds back.
We don’t have to participate in every conversation. We don’t have to express
every thought that comes to mind. We do have to pause and carefully consider our
words before we speak. When ideas and words are forming in our brains, we should
stop and ask: First, are our forthcoming words necessary? If they’re not, why
say them? Why needlessly increase the volume of our words and thereby create
more opportunities for sin? Second, are our forthcoming words true? Are they
absolutely, unquestionably true? If they’re not, we should not spend one more
minute thinking them, let alone speaking them. How many deceitful and
destructive words might be silenced if we took the time to consider those two
simple questions?
Apply:
The next time you’re tempted to jump into a conversation, ask the two questions
mentioned above. Notice how often thinking before speaking causes you to simply
fall
silent.